Wednesday, 16 February 2011

Pregnancy First Trimester

Pregnancy First Trimester

The first trimester (from 0-12 Weeks) will see your body undergoing many changes as it adjusts to your growing baby. It is important to understand that these are all normal events and that most of these discomforts will go away as your pregnancy progresses. Further, you may not even experience any of the symptoms listed below. Included here are some of the symptoms you may experience during your pregnancy and how best to deal with them.

Breast Changes
The mammary glands cause the breasts to swell and become tender in preparation for breastfeeding. This is due to an increased amount of the hormones estrogen and progesterone. These changes are aimed at preparing you to feed your baby when she arrives. A supportive bra should be worn. This will minimize stretching and sagging of the breast tissue.

Pregnancy Tip

Want to make sure you and your baby are healthy right from the beginning? Then start taking a prenatal vitamin, like Promise Stage 1 . These supplements are specially formulated to give you more of what you need and less of what you don't during the first trimester.

A woman's areolas (the pigmented areas around each breast's nipple) will enlarge, darken and may become covered with small, white bumps called Montgomery's tubercles (enlarged sweat glands that look like large goose bumps). You'll also experience an increase in sensitivity in your breasts, but they should not remain tender to touch past the third or fourth month. In some women a network of bluish lines appears under the skin as blood supply to the breasts increases. After delivery, if you breastfeed, your breasts may increase another cup size.

Tiredness
A woman may experience fatigue due to the physical and emotional demands of pregnancy. During your pregnancy, you might feel tired even when you've had a lot of sleep at night. Many women find they're exhausted in the first trimester. Don't worry, this is normal! This is your body's way of telling you that you need more rest. Tiredness will pass over time and be replaced with a feeling of well being and increased energy.

When you are tired, get some rest. Try to get eight hours of sleep every night, and take a nap during the day if you can. If you feel stressed, try to find a way to relax. You might want to start sleeping on your left side, if you find it more comfortable. This will relieve pressure on major blood vessels that supply oxygen and nutrients to the fetus. Using a body pillow can help to comfortably support your body.

Once your body has adjusted to the increased demands placed upon it, you should have more energy. Until then, you may need to work fewer hours or take a few days off if you're really fatigued. Once your body is back to some semblance of normality, there is no reason why you shouldn't return to your job. You will probably find that you are happier and less anxious if you keep busy.

Tips to Help You Deal With Fatigue

  • Get eight hours of sleep or more each night
  • Ensure your following a proper diet. Fatigue may be aggravated by a deficiency in iron, protein, or just not getting enough calories.
  • Baby yourself and let others baby you. By getting adequate rest and relaxing while making sure your spouse is doing his fair share of the chores, you will be able to focus on taking care of yourself and your baby.
  • Fatigue is often worsened by your environment. Be alert of inadequate lighting, poor air circulation, poor air quality, or excessive noise and try to get them corrected.
  • Get some exercise. Often a nice walk or even a slow jog can help with fatigue. Too much rest can actually heighten fatigue but be sure not to overdo the amount you exercise.

Mood Changes
Partly due to surges in hormones, a pregnant woman may experience mood swings similar to premenstrual syndrome (a condition experienced by some women that is characterized by mood swings, irritability and other physical symptoms that occur shortly before each menstrual period). You may also experience emotions such as fear, joy or elation.

Nausea and Vomiting
Increased levels of hormones that sustain the pregnancy may cause morning sickness, which is feelings of nausea that can sometimes lead to vomiting. In addition to the increased levels of hCG and estrogen, the rapid stretching of the uterine muscles, the relaxation of muscles in the digestive tract, an increase in acid in the stomach and the enhanced sense of smell pregnant women develop can all contribute to morning sickness.

Just over half of all expectant women experience the nausea and vomiting associated with morning sickness. However, morning sickness does not necessarily occur just in the morning and rarely interferes with proper maternal and fetal nutrition. Even those women that actually lose weight during the first few months of pregnancy because they have a hard time keeping any food down are not hurting their baby, as long as they make up for the lost weight later on. Also, if you are experiencing morning sickness, the symptoms usually don't linger much beyond the third month.

Tips on Getting a Grip on Your 'Morning' Sickness

  • Eat frequent, small meals (6 to 8 small meals a day, rather than 3 large meals). An empty stomach, as well as the low blood sugar caused by long stretches between meals can both contribute to morning sickness symptoms. Be sure to carry nutritious snacks with you for snacking.
  • Eat a diet that is high in protein and complex carbohydrates, both of which help to alleviate the symptoms of morning sickness
  • Drink lots of water, especially if you're losing liquid through vomiting
  • Consuming carbonated drinks in between meals may help with your symptoms
  • A prenatal vitamin supplement may help to compensate for nutrients that you may not be getting due to vomitting. Remember, do not take any medication for morning sickness unless it is prescribed by your practitioner.
  • Avoid fatty, fried or spicy foods
  • Avoid the sight, smell and taste of foods that make you nauseous
  • Try starchy foods, like toast, saltines, cheerios or other dry cereals. Keep some by your bed and eat them before you get out of bed in the morning and when you get up in the middle of the night. Also keep some with you at all times, in case you feel nauseous.
  • Get some extra sleep and relaxation and take it easy in the mornings. Minimizing your daily stress will help you cope better with morning sickness. While you rest, consider listening to some specially formatted cds that can help ease your symptoms.
  • Although you will likely want to brush your teeth after vomiting, try to avoid it for at least an hour. The contents of your stomach are acidic and this acid can coat your teeth when you vomit, causing some of your tooth enamel to dissolve. Instead of brushing, get the taste of vomit out of your mouth by smearing some toothpaste on your teeth and rinsing with water.

Frequency of Urination
The uterus is growing and begins to press on the woman's bladder, causing the need for her to urinate more frequently. Further, the increased volume of body fluids and the improved efficiency of the kidneys, help to rid the body more quickly of waste products. The pressure on your bladder is often relieved once the uterus rises into the abdominal cavity around the fourth month and doesn't return until the third trimester when the baby "drops" back down into the pelvis in the ninth month. By leaning forward when you urinate, you will ensure that you empty your bladder completely and reduce trips to the bathroom.

It is important to remember that if you notice pain, burning, pus or blood in your urine to see your health care provider right away. You might have a urinary tract infection that needs treatment.

Gastrointestinal Symptoms
As the growing uterus presses on the rectum and intestines, constipation may occur. The muscular contractions in the intestines, which help to move food through the digestive tract, are slowed due to high levels of progesterone. This may, in turn, cause heartburn, indigestion and gas.

With gas, some women become so bloated that they are prevented from eating regularly and properly. By ensuring you have regular bowel movements (see below), eating many small meals instead of few big ones and eating slowly, you will avoid the risk of bloating and minimize your own discomfort. Also, be sure to steer clear of gas-producing food such as onions, cabbage, fried foods, rich sauces, sugary sweets and beans.

High levels of certain hormones circulating during pregnancy cause the muscles of the bowel to relax making bowel movements more sluggish. Also, the growing uterus puts pressure on the bowel, cramping its normal activity. The result is constipation. To prevent constipation, try to eat fresh or dried fruit, raw vegetables and whole grain cereals or breads everyday. Also, try to drink eight to ten glasses of water everyday. Some of these servings can be substituted with fruit or vegetable juice. Try to avoid caffeinated drinks (coffee, tea, colas, and some other sodas), since caffeine makes your body lose fluid and won't help with constipation. Also, holding in bowel movements can weaken muscles that control them and lead to constipation. So when you have to go, go!

Dizziness
Dizziness, feeling lightheaded, and even fainting can occur at any stage of pregnancy, since there now is extra blood going down towards your uterus and legs. Thus, sometimes there's not an adequate blood supply to fill the rapidly expanding circulatory system. This coupled with the pressure of an expanding uterus on the mother's blood vessels can lead to dizziness and sometimes faintness. If you experience dizziness when you get up too quickly this is due to a sudden shifting of blood away from the brain as you change positions. If this is the case, be sure to get up very gradually.

Another culprit might be low blood sugar levels. Ensure that you get some protein at every meal and that you eat frequent, smaller meals or try to snack between your meals. Another possible cause of your dizziness may be dehydration, so ensure that you're getting at least eight cups a day of fluids. Sometimes just getting some fresh air by going outside or opening a window may bring some relief. You can help relieve these symptoms by lying down on your left side. Or to help prevent them, try moving around more instead of sitting or standing in one position for a long time. Be sure to let your practitioner know about your dizzy spells at your next visit as it could be a sign of an underlying problem such as anemia.

Varicose Veins
Normal veins carry blood from your extremities and organs back to your heart. The veins contain a series of valves that prevent backflow of blood. If these valves are missing or faulty, blood will pool in the viens where the pressure of gravity is greatest, usually in the legs, but sometimes in the rectum or vulva, resulting in bulging. Varicose veins are more common in those who are overweight.

During pregnancy, pressure on the large veins behind the uterus and leg veins causes the blood to slow in its return to the heart. This, coupled with the pregnant woman's expanded blood volume and hormone-induced relaxation of the muscle tissue in the veins, can lead to varicose veins in the legs and hemorrhoids (varicose veins in the vagina or around the anus).

Varicose veins look like swollen veins raised above the surface of the skin. They can be twisted or bulging and are dark purple or blue in color. They are found most often on the backs of the calves or on the inside of the leg, anywhere from the groin to the ankle. Also, veins become more prominent on the surface of the breast. There may be a mild achiness or severe pain in the legs, or a sensation of heaviness, or swelling. In sever cases; the skin overlying the veins becomes swollen, dry, and irritated. In most cases, the problem will clear up or improve spontaneously after delivery, or by the time pre-pregnancy weight is reached.

Varicose vein symptoms can be treated with various techniques. From natural supplements surgery, there are a variety of effective varicose vein treatments.

Tips to Prevent Varicose Veins and Minimize Symptoms During Pregnancy

  • Avoid tight knee-highs or garters
  • Avoid excessive weight gain
  • Sit with your legs and feet raised when possible. If you work at a desk, you can prop your feet up on a footstool, box or several books. Or when relaxing at home, keep your feet up on a footstool, some pillows on the couch, or another chair. Try to avoid long periods of standing or sitting.
  • Avoid heavy lifting
  • Avoid straining during bowel movements as this can lead to hypertension and hemorrhoids
  • Try to exercise twenty to thrity minutes a day; this can be something like a brisk walk or a swim
  • Vitamin C helps to keep veins healthy and elastic

Some women get spidery purplish-red lines on their thighs called spider veins. These result from the hormone changes of pregnancy and should not be confused with varicose veins. They usually fade and disappear after delivery. If not, they can be treated easily by a dermatologist.

Leg Cramps
At different times during your pregnancy, you might have cramps in your legs or feet. This is due to a change in the way your body processes, or metabolizes, calcium. One way to prevent these cramps is to make sure to get enough calcium through nonfat or low-fat milk, and calcium-rich foods. You also get some calcium in your prenatal vitamin, but you might need to take a calcium supplement if you don't get enough through your diet. Talk with your health care provider first about taking calcium supplements.

Fatigue and fluid accumulation in the legs are also thought to be contributing factors to leg cramps. You can limit the effect of fatigue and swelling by wearing support hose during the day and alternating periods of rest with your feet up, with periods of physical activity.

You can relieve leg and foot cramps by gently stretching the muscle. If you have a sudden leg cramp, flex your foot towards your body. If you point your foot to stretch your leg, the cramp could worsen. Wrapping a warm heating pad or warm, moist towel around the muscle also can help relax the muscle.

Hemorrhoids
Rectal bleeding during pregnancy can be caused by internal or external hemorrhoids. Hemorrhoids are varicose veins of the rectum, and can cause itching and pain as well as bleeding. Constipation often causes or compounds both problems. If you do have bleeding from your rectum, make sure it is evaluated by a physician.

Tips on Preventing or Alleviating Hemorrhoids Symptoms During Pregnancy

  • Prevent constipation by eating plenty of fluids and getting lots of fiber in your diet
  • Decrease pressure by sleeping on your side, not standing or sitting for long periods and not straining when having a bowel movement
  • Warm sitz baths can help reduce discomfort
  • Laxatives, stool softeners, suppositories or medications should only be used if prescribed by a doctor
  • Even if you get hemorrhoids, they will probably disappear postpartum if you follow these preventative measures

Increased Heart Rate
Cardiac volume increases by approximately 40 to 50 percent from the beginning to the end of the pregnancy, causing an increased cardiac output. An increased cardiac output may cause an increased pulse rate during pregnancy. The increase in blood volume is needed for extra blood flow to the uterus.

Excess Saliva
Early in pregnancy, it is common for women to experience overproduction of saliva. Though unpleasant, it's harmless and normally disappears after the first few months. It is more common in those women that also experience morning sickness. To try and dry things up a bit, try brushing your teeth frequently with mint toothpaste, rinsing with a mint mouthwash or chewing sugarless gum.

Heartburn and Indigestion
Due to large amounts of the hormones progesterone and relaxin that are produced during pregnancy, the smooth muscle lining in your gastrointestinal tract will relax, allowing food to move more slowly through your system, resulting in bloating and indigestion.

Heartburn occurs partly due to relaxation of the ring that separates the esophagus from the stomach. This allows the harsh stomach acid to come up and irritate the sensitive espophageal lining, causing a burning sensation.

Tips on How to Avoid or Minimize Heartburn Symptoms

  • Avoid gaining too much weight as this puts excess pressure on the stomach contents
  • Don't smoke
  • Eat six small meals rather than three big ones and eat slowly
  • Stay upright for several hours after eating and try not to eat big meals prior to going to bed
  • Try to minimize fatty foods, processed meats, chocolate, coffee, alcohol or spicy foods
  • Don't wear clothing that is very constrictive around your abdomen or waist
  • Ask your practitioner to recommend an antacid. Always check with your practitioner before taking any medication or supplement, even if it is over-the-counter medication

Appetite Increase and Cravings
Due to your body's increased need for more nutrients and energy to sustain your growing baby, you may find that your appetite may be increased during this trimester. You will probably find that your taste in food will change somewhat during pregnancy. This is mainly due to hormone changes. It is completely normal and will probably continue until your birth. If you find yourself craving something that you know you'd probably be better off without, then seek a substitute that satisfies the craving but without filling you up on empty calories. Occasionally giving in to less nutritious cravings is fine, as long as they don't include something risky. Most cravings disappear or weaken by the fourth month.

Recommended Link
The first trimester can be a turbulent time for expectant moms. There's morning sickness, aches and pains, changes in your body that you never expected. Tell your side of the story at Pregnancy Stories and help other women going through their first trimester know that they're not alone

Monday, 14 June 2010

Wedding Music: Pros and Cons of Choosing a DJ or Wedding Band

How to Decide Between a Wedding Band and a DJ

By , About.com Guide
 
Having the right music at your reception is essential to setting the mood, and making sure people have fun. But how do you know whether to hire a wedding band or DJ? Here are the pros and cons of each.

Wedding Band Pros

  • There truly is nothing like live music, which can energize the crowd, and get people more excited for dancing

  • Odds are, the sound quality will be better than with a DJ

  • Musicians can change the tempo of songs so as to accommodate some fancy dance moves or a tired fiancĂ©

  • A specific type of band can truly complete a wedding theme. (For example, a 1930s-themed wedding and a swing band, an Irish wedding and a Celtic band, or fairytale wedding with an orchestra)

Wedding Band Cons

  • For many, the cost of hiring a wedding band is prohibitive. At a cost of between $2000 and $20,000 (and up!), you'll want to know that you've found the most ideal group for your wedding ever

  • Some wedding bands can really only play one sound, and have a hard time switching genres or styles. You might find yourself with one that is either too classical, too jazzy, or just plain too wedding-band-like. And, if you've got a favorite song, they may not be able to play it well

  • Some bands have only one volume: loud. If you've got a small reception venue, a wedding band might overpower it

  • Those musicians are going to need to take breaks; when the music stops, most will turn on a CD for you, but it won't have the same energy as live music does

DJ Pros

  • Your first dance song can be sung by the artist that made you fall in love, rather than a pale imitation

  • Most DJs have libraries of hundreds or even thousands of songs. That means they'll have music that your friends will like, as well as songs for Aunt Bettie's generation

  • Songs can quickly segue from great dance numbers to the perfect "cutting the cake song" or background music as someone makes a toast

  • You shouldn't have to have any break in the music at all

DJ Cons

  • Beware of the bored DJ or worse, the one on autopilot. Because many wedding DJs have their routines down pat, they can get bored. This might mean that they make terrible jokes or try to ham it up between songs. Or, it might mean they are doing everything automatically. I've seen an autopilot DJ play songs from the "do not play list", ask for the bride's father to make a toast even though he wasn't there, and announce a couple as Mr. and Mrs. Hisfirstname Hislastname even though the bride didn't change her name and they specifically asked to be announced in a different way! Make sure you meet with the person who will actually be performing your wedding. See if you've got a vibe that meshes, and if he/she seems excited about putting together a playlist specifically for your event

Above all, try to go and see the wedding band or DJ actually performing to know if they're truly right for you. No, you don't need to crash a wedding at someone's house, but if they're playing a reception at an event space, or a club, peek your head in the back unobtrusively and watch for their style and vibe. Frequently a DJ or band leader will act as the MC of a wedding reception, which means you'll need them to be entertaining but not annoying, polished, friendly, and charismatic.
 
 
XOXO

Wedding Receptions - The Do Not Play List

The Worst Wedding Songs

By , About.com Guide
 
Couples spend lots of time thinking of the perfect first dance song, or their favorite tunes that are "must plays." But if you're working with a DJ or cover band, you'll want to spend some time thinking about the worst wedding songs and putting together your Do Not Play list. After all, there's nothing worse than hearing some creepy breakup song during a romantic wedding, even if it is a Top 40 hit. Here's what's on my personal Don't Play List:

Cheesy Group Dance Numbers

Sure, DJs love these songs. They're great for entertaining kids, and they get people on the dance floor. But there's absolutely nothing elegant, sophisticated, or hip about them. And they might just send your friends off the dance floor permanently:

  • Chicken Dance
  • Macarena
  • Conga
  • YMCA
  • Hokey Pokey
  • Locomotion
  • Cha Cha Slide
  • Limbo Rock

In fact, just putting this list together makes me groan out loud with the memories of all the times I've had to endure these songs at weddings. Just say no to the Macarena!

Strange Break-up Songs and Other Mood Killers

A beautiful bride and groom take the floor for their first dance. As you hear the music start, you ready your tissues for the romantic sight you're about to see. But hold on just a second. What's that they're playing? This song is all about a breakup! There's nothing romantic in dancing at your wedding to a song about breaking up!

  • Every Breath You Take – Police (Unless you're marrying your creepy stalker, this is not a romantic song!)
  • I will Always Love You – Dolly Parton/ Whitney Houston (It's about a break up. Please, no talk of "bittersweet memories" at your wedding.)
  • Lips of an Angel – Hinder (The angel's great lips are enough to make him think about cheating on his girlfriend).
  • My Heart Will Go On – Celine Dion (She's singing the song to her dead boyfriend. Dead and weddings don't mix that well.)
  • Tears in Heaven – Eric Clapton (Yet another death song I've heard at too many weddings. I know there's the life insurance policy, but it's a little too early to be talking about death, don't you think?)
  • I Will Survive – Gloria Gaynor. (Not only have I heard this at a million weddings, but I've also seen it on lists of "popular wedding songs!" People, it's a song about surviving a horrible breakup! Don't play this at your wedding.)
  • Jesse's Girl – Rick Springfield (Go ahead. Fuel rumors that the bride is sleeping/has slept/will sleep with the Best Man.)
  • White Wedding – Billy Idol (Idol himself says that the song is about hating his sister's fiancĂ©.)
  • Love Stinks, You Gave Love A Bad Name, Tainted Love (all self explanatory).

Just Plain Bad

I'm sure after I write this list, I'm going to get tons of emails saying "How could you say XYZ was bad??? I love that song!" That's fine that you love it, I don't. So it's on my "do not play list." Hopefully this list will spark some ideas for you about hated songs.

  • Celebration – Kool and the Gang
  • Honky Tonk Badonkadonk – Trace Adkins
  • Who Let the Dogs Out – Baha Men
  • Everybody (Have Fun Tonight) – Wang Chung
  • Tequila – The Champs
  • Cuts Like a Knife – Bryan Adams
  • Dude Looks Like a Lady - Aerosmith
  • My Humps – Black Eyed Peas

 

XOXO

World Music Songs for Weddings

Romantic Songs from Around the Globe

By , About.com Guide
 
World music fans often find themselves in a bit of a jam when they're planning the music for their wedding - they want to express their unique taste in music, but also want to keep the music sweet and romantic. These ten songs will surely add a touch of romance, as well as some fabulous global flavor, to your wedding.

Samite - 'Ngwino Rukundo'

"Come, come my love, may you live forever..."

This tearjerkingly sweet number from Ugandan musician Samite is hard to resist. Though it was recorded in the mid-90s (the heyday of overly synth-y Afropop), Samite kept it simple and acoustic, and the result is a timeless love song with great African rhythms and bilingual lyrics.
 

Sara Tavares - 'One Love'

"I know we'll understand each other if we speak love..."

There's a fine line between sweet and ooey-gooey, and Sara Tavares knows exactly how to stay on the correct side of that line. Bouncing back and forth between English and Portuguese, the lyrics are genuinely romantic and delivered with just enough sexiness to make them real. The tempo is great for medium-slow dancing, and the rhythms will add a beachy tone to your reception.
 

Bob Marley - 'Mellow Mood'

"I've got love, darlin', love sweet love, darlin'"

"Mellow Mood" is, in my opinion, the most romantic song Bob Marley ever wrote, and possibly one of the greatest reggae songs of all time. It definitely borders on the sultry, but it's still plenty Grandma-friendly.
 

Edith Piaf - 'La Vie en Rose'

"Quand il me prend dans ses bras, il me parle tout bas, je vois la vie en rose" (When he holds me in his arms, he speaks very low, I see life as rose-colored)

Ah, Edith Piaf. Though true love evaded her for most of her tragic life, she could still deliver it musically. "La Vie en Rose" is practically the gold standard of love songs and, in my humble opinion, should absolutely make an aural appearance at every wedding.
 

Paolo Conte - 'Via Con Me'

"It's wonderful, it's wonderful, it's wonderful, I dream of you. Chips, chips. Do-do-do-do-do."

This quirky little love song always seems to make an appearance in European romantic comedies (which are less romantic and more comedic than American ones, methinks), but definitely adds a darkly sweet European flavor to any occasion. The swingy beat is great for dancing, too.
 

Israel Kamakawiwo'ole - 'Somewhere Over the Rainbow/What a Wonderful World'

"The dreams that you dream of, dreams really do come true."

Even the most hard-hearted romance-hater has a hard time resisting this modern classic from Israel Kamakawiwo'ole, even if they won't admit it. It's pretty much just plain beautiful. This one would make a great first wedding dance song, especially since unlike many of the songs on this list, you'll hear it frequently enough to say, "Aww, honey, it's our song!" It's a wedding, people, you're allowed to be a little bit sappy.
 

Yungchen Lhamo - 'Happiness Is...'


I don't speak the Tibetan language, but I've been told by people who know these sorts of things that this song is, lyrically, kind of Charlie Brown-meets-Zen Buddhism. Yungchen Lhamo's voice is quite haunting, but very beautiful, and would make a really nice addition to the soundtrack of a global-themed wedding.
 

Balfa Brothers - 'Parlez-Nous a Boire'

"Parlez-nous a boire, et pas de mariage; toujours en regrettant nos jolis temps passes" (Talk to us about drinking, not about marriage; we'll always be missing the good times we had.)

A major hallmark of Cajun culture is a wry sense of humor, which is probably why "Parlez-Nous a Boire" has been a staple at Cajun weddings for decades. The song pokes light-hearted fun at marriage, from beginning to end. It's pretty funny (and totally harmless), and if you have a naughty sense of humor yourself, it'll balance out the sappy-sweet songs. Plus, it's a great dance tune, so hopefully it'll get everyone out of their seats.
 

Ladysmith Black Mambazo - 'Hello My Baby'

"Hey, baby, hey... Hey, beautiful girl."

Ladysmith Black Mambazo primarily perform gospel and other holy music, but a lot of people would argue that love songs are pretty sacred as well... especially when they've heard this doozy! Unless you're advanced in the practice of finding the beat, you might not want to make this one your first dance, simply because it's a cappella and it changes tempo mid-tune. It's totally sweet, though, and really has that classic Ladysmith sound, so it's definitely worth adding to the roster.
 

Jay Ungar & Molly Mason - 'The Lovers' Waltz'


Jay Ungar is perhaps best known for his composition "Ashokan Farewell", which provided the softly intense background music for the Ken Burns documentary The Civil War. "The Lovers' Waltz", though wordless, has a similar feeling, but with an ethereal strain of romance running through it. It takes a great composer to make an instrumental tune so emotive, and Ungar is definitely that. With elements of folk, celtic music and Cajun music, this tune would make a great first (or last) waltz.
 
 
XOXO

Top Ten Popular and Traditional Father-Daughter Wedding Dance Songs

By , About.com Guide
 
Looking for a traditional or popular wedding dance song for a bride and her father? This list includes songs from pop artists and popular singers over the last several years.

1. Unforgettable

You can't listen to Natalie Cole's version of her father's hit Unforgettable without feeling the warm affection between a father and a daughter. And it is easy to dance to as well.
 

2. How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved by You)

This James Taylor classic hit is a great but less often used wedding dance choice. Many dads remember it from their youth and it is a lot of fun to dance to. This is not your classic waltz, but it is still memorable.
 

3. You Are So Beautiful To Me

This great tune by Joe Cocker is a little older, but is still familiar to most dads and brides. It is a good slow song that brings tears and tender emotions.
 

4. Can You Feel the Love Tonight?

This classic from "The Lion King" sung ny Elton John often isn't thought of as a father daughter wedding dance song, but it has become more and more popular in recent years.
 

5. You Are the Wind Beneath My Wings

The Bette Midler classic again is not usually the first father-daughter wedding song, but has a great message from a daughter to her dad. And with a little more upbeat tempo, it can be fun to dance to.
 

6. What a Wonderful World

This immensely popular song from jazz great Louis Armstong is one loved by brides and dads alike. The popularity of this song was resurrected by the famous chick-flick Sleepless in Seattle has been heard in a romantic setting by thousands of brides in the movie and other settings. A nice song to dance to.
 

7. Dancing on Daddy's Shoes

Another older song by Leon Redbone, Dancing on Daddy's Shoes is a sweet and fun song for a wedding reception. Check it out if you are not familiar with it; the song will certainly grow on you.
 

8. The Way You Look Tonight

This famous song popularized in the 60's by Tony Bennett has been extremely popular at weddings for years. Soft, smooth tones of the great crooner will be a tender moment at any wedding reception.
 

9. My Girl

An oldie but goodie, The Temptation's My Girl is a wedding classic. A ton of fun to dance to, this one is always popular with dads and brides.
 

10. Isn't She Lovely

Stevie Wonder's classic song Isn't She Lovely is a great dance song for fathers and daughters. It crosses generations and cultural backgrounds. And it is a really peppy song for dancing.
 
 
XOXO

Top Ten Country Western Wedding Dance Songs for Dads and Daughters

By , About.com Guide
 
Is your daughter having a country themed wedding, or do you both just like country music? Here is a list of all-time favorite country songs to which you and your daughter can dance at the reception.

1. Butterfly Kisses

Bob Carlisle's Butterfly Kisses is one of the all-time favorites. The message is loved by dads and daughters alike and the tempo makes dancing easy.
 

2. I Loved her First

What a great song for a father-daughter wedding dance! By the country/pop group Heartland, this song will melt the heart of daughter, father and every onlooker.
 

3. My Little Girl

The consummate wedding dance song that is sung from the father's perspective, Steve Kirwan's My Little Girl is a gentle, sweet song with a dad reflecting on his experiences as his little girl's daddy.
 

4. Stealing Cinderella

Probably one of the newer country songs that makes a great father-daughter wedding dance piece, Chuck Wicks' top country song is a real winner. Fun beat, slow enough to dance to together and memorable lyrics make this one a favorite.
 

5. My Little Girl

Tim McGraw is one of my favorite country artists and this ballad will be a favorite for anyone who likes country music. And the tempo is such that it is pretty easy to dance to.
 

6. I Hope You Dance

A slow, rich country ballad that speaks to a father's inspiration for his daughter's success, Lee Ann Womack's I Hope You Dance will melt the heart of many wedding goers. This is another song that is slow and easy to dance.
 

7. Daddy's Little Girl

Another ballad-like song from Kippi Brannon, this piece is rich and emotional, reminiscing about the bride's growing up years with her dad and the time they spent together.

8. Daddy's Hands

Holly Dunn performs this song that walks down Memory Lane with a dad as she grew up on the farm. This is a great song for rural dads and daughters.
 

9. An Angel to Me

This is a fun country song performed by Loxsen Morre. It is an easy county waltz and the lyrics are sweet and tender.
 

10. Daddy's Girl

Red Sovine was a country singer back when "country was." Think Johnny Cash and Conway Twitty. If you like the twang of classic country, then you might want to consider this one for the reception. It's a little more upbeat than most of these other country songs, so dancing might take a little more skill and energy but it is a fun one.
 
 
XOXO
 

Top Ten Father-Daughter Wedding Dance Songs

By , About.com Guide
 
Is there a more emotional moment in a father's or a daughter's life than when they dance at her wedding or reception? Maybe, but I can't think of one. Here are, based on my informal survey of other fathers of the bride, the top songs for that father-daughter dance at the wedding celebration.

If you are looking for father-daughter wedding dance songs with a specific theme, check out our list of country wedding dance songs and our list of favorite traditional wedding dance songs as well.

1. Butterfly Kisses
Bob Carlisle's Butterfly Kisses is one of the all-time favorites. The message is loved by dads and daughters alike and the tempo makes dancing easy.

2. When Angels Fly
When Angels Fly is a new addition to our top ten list of father-daughter wedding songs. Performed by Tony Ransom & The Heavenly Light Orchestra, it is at once inspiring and memorable.

3. I Loved Her First
What a great song for a father-daughter wedding dance! By the country/pop group Heartland, this song will melt the heart of daughter, father and every onlooker.

4. Through the Years
Through the Years by Kenny Rogers is a timeless song of love and is a favorite of many of my friends. It is a little bit country, which appeals to many dads and daughters, but is sweet and memorable.

5. Sunrise Sunset
The wedding song from the Fiddler on the Roof is a long time favorite for the dad and daughter dance. It was sung at my wedding reception 29 years ago, and has special memories for me. And it makes for an elegant dance given the slow and graceful tempo.

6. How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved by You)
This James Taylor classic hit is a great but less often used wedding dance choice. Many dads remember it from their youth and it is a lot of fun to dance to. This is not your classic waltz, but it is still memorable.

7. The Way You Look Tonight
An old Frank Sinatra tune (with the Count Basie orchestra) is a wonderful dad and daughter dance number. It has a fun beat and is well crafted for a little swing dance at a wedding or reception.

8. Unforgettable
You can't listen to Natalie Cole's version of her father's hit Unforgettable without feeling the warm affection between a father and a daughter. And it is easy to dance to as well.

9. Lullabye (Goodnight my Angel)
One of Billy Joel's soulful songs sings a lullaby to his daughter and provides a favorite dance song for weddings. This is a unique song--not one you'll hear at every wedding--and still is meaningful to a dad and his newlywed daughter.

10. My Father's Eyes
Amy Grant's performance of My Father's Eyes is sweet and soulful and will be loved by both you and your daughter.

 

XOXO

Source